Nia, an insight
Sunday, August 2, 2009, 10:52 PM
History

Nur Saniyah. First saw her at Baybeats 2008, with my cousin Irfah. I was instantly attracted to her innocence and her cuteness. However, several attempts to get her number was blocked by Irfah, who strongly feel that Nia deserved her then-boyfriend. I gave up instantly.
February, early 2009, I came home from one of my "guys-nite-out" feeling depressed, lonely, and growing desperate after 3-and-a-half years of unattached singlehood. I remembered her (nia) again, smsed Irfah, literally begging her for Nia's number. Again, she refused but suggested instead adding Nia via Facebook.

I neither had a Facebook account before, nor the interest to create one, but somehow I relented due to the prospect of knowing Nia.

I created an account immediately and added her. To my dismay, Nia ignored me. But my fighting spirit was there, and I religiously send her messages to attract her attention.

Later-June. After the Taiwan "vacation", I was faced with news of Nia being single, and with newfound determination, I got her number, text-ed her, kissed her and most importantly, fallen for her.

Nur Saniyah

-very cute personality
-innocent persona
-smart
-hardworking
-loving
-knows her priorities
-exceptional maturity
-reliable, trustworthy
-potential spouse
-great chemistry
-i'm in love with her
-stable family
-not materialistic
-adores children


Great chemistry does not translate into a successful r'ship. For example, Kate Winslet and Leonardo Dicaprio shares an excellent off and on screen chemistry but they are not an item.

Conclusion
Acceptance of her past is the key that would strengthen our relationship.

I've waited 3 years for someone like her, and everything I worked hard to achieve would be lost if I did not change my ways. Well, my love for her is unimaginable, a match entirely made in heaven, and I will not let this one go. Yes, she's the one I'm looking for all my life.


Yan.